Advice for single men needing nudist women
by Rich Pasco
I often read on the internet (and sometimes hear in person)
pleas from single men who desperately want a woman to accompany
them to nudist resorts. I usually advise them that it's easier
to find nudist women at nudist resorts than on the internet. In
this article I'd like to elaborate on that with some points of my
On the other hand,
- If you go to a nudist resort in order to meet women, you will
be disappointed. There aren't all that many there, and
depending on how hard you work at it while you're there, you
might also find yourself invited to not return.
- If you try to meet a woman in order to go to a nudist resort,
you will be disappointed. A woman wants to be valued as a
human being, as your friend and as your loving partner, not as
a body to be used as a ticket of admission somewhere.
You can have everything you want.
- If you go to a nudist resort for its own sake, just to swim and
sunbathe and play without clothing, then you will find that joy
and playfulness and friendship is available to you. Some of
the women you meet may become your friends and lovers.
- If you are self-confident and happy and friendly and open and
not needy or desperately lonely, then you will find women are
attracted to you in all walks of life, including nudist settings
- If your self-confidence extends to openly portraying your
naturist lifestyle as a wholesome and healthy recreational
choice, then some of the women you befriend in non-naturist
settings will be open to visiting your naturist resorts with you.
South Bay Naturist News, Vol. 8, No. 9: September 15, 1996, p.8
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